Love is the one force in this Universe that transcends genders, but there are subtle differences between how both genders display their affection to each other. Men are definitely not like women when it comes to showing feelings.
It costs men much more than women to show what they feel and only do it when they really feel it. There are 8 things that a man will only do with the woman he loves.
Here are 8 apparent actions which indicate when a man is absolutely in love with his significant other. So if you’re wondering whether your man really loves you or not this is a good way to find out.
1. He’s someone who will genuinely listen to you
If you believe that men sometimes act like small kids around the people they love, you’re not wrong at all. Most men cannot concentrate on something unless they really care about that. If he loves you, your voice is music to his ears and what you have to say to him is something that really matters to him.
The man who really loves you will not only listen to you but will pay special attention to your words and you will realize this because he will follow your advice and respect your words.
2. He will argue with you. And that’s perfectly fine!
Yes, fights are not always a sign that your relationship is going through a bad time. If your man really does not care or never cared enough to love you, he will not use his time and energy arguing with you. The occasional arguments are simply a sign that he wants things to work between you two. He wants to find a middle ground in which the two of you are truly happy.
3. He will make sacrifices to ensure you happiness
This is one of the most certain signs that a man really loves a woman. If your guy changes something that he would like to do for something that would make you happy, he not only shows that he loves you, but that he respects you and that making sacrifices for your happiness does not intimidate him. On the contrary, such sacrifices make him feel full.
4. He will fight for your love until his dying breath
When a man is with a woman for any reason other than love and the desire to build something lasting, he will never fight for your love. Only if he truly loves you will he move heaven and Earth to not lose you. A man in love feels lucky to have you in his life and losing you is the last thing he could bear.
5. This man will be honestly proud of all your accomplishments
When a man loves a woman, everything she does becomes an achievement of his own. It’s almost like when women are mothers and every little thing their little ones do is like they’ve touched the sky with their hands. A man in love does not compete with the woman he loves; a man in love wins with the woman he loves.
6. He will see the beauty in you even on your worst days
A few weeks ago one of my co-workers had a blister on one of her lips and did not want to meet her boyfriend because she did not want him to see her that way. However, the consensus of all of us was that if he saw her like that and he did not care, it would be a sign that he really was interested in her. When a man really loves a woman, she always looks beautiful to him, no matter what.
7. He will show genuine care for your family and friends
A man in love understands that the people you love are important to you and that if they are happy, you will be happy too. If a man loves you, he will have no problem in listening to you tell him all those details of your friends’ problems and he will even contribute what he can to help them solve the problem.
8. He is not afraid to show his vulnerable side in front of you
Men do not like to be vulnerable (never). However, if a man loves you, he will not have problems showing you that he is afraid to stop having you in his life.
You are a precious person to him and he won’t hesitate from showing that.